You would have to find out where the closest Epilepsy Foundation in your state. Ask them about their support groups. Or you can try and form your own Epilepsy group.

Stay away from facebook groups there are other sites that you can find groups or start a group on... even here i am on telegram chat and may consider trying something there if i knew others as well

How about starting one here.

Epilepsy Foundation of America, I am trying to get one going on the Cafe Moms group called "Family Friends and Epilepsy."

Yes all kinds on fb. Epilepsy Support is a good one.