If they REALLY love you, no.
My boyfriend seen me have a seizure last week, called 911 and did everything in his willpower.
He loves me.

Just like Stephanie said. If she really wants to be your wife and want to help you, support you, understand your Epilepsy, she won’t leave you . Using your Epilepsy as an excuse. Then she she’s not truly yours.

I remember what is was like before the change of the job applications. I also notice that most people have a something wrong with them. None of us are perfect and we are dealt this hand. I thank God for all I can do and all that I cant. It hurts at times but I try to remember I have a disability and if someone else views me as that disability or cant accept who I am because of that. They are the ones that are disabled. I ahve had to deal withj family members and people with my church. When i stood up for myself firmly and not in a mad tone- it wa amazing how many people backed me up. Also a lot of people still dont know the who;e story on Epilepsy and need to be educated about it. St Valentine is the patron saint of Epileptics A good thought to keep in mind. Dont get me wrong I have my bad days but I also have this and try to see the whole picture

Also think about this. If she ;loves you and I know that you worry ( I have done the same) but it can across to her like you dont trust what she says and how she feels. That can cause issues. Talk to he about it and explain it is not her but you.

That’s a great answer. I believe that is the best way to look at it. Put yourself in their position and ask yourself what you would do