I can't think of anything in this brain of mine. I can't remember a time when I said something that offended someone except when my sister told me I didn't know anything about anyone running and I needed to research them all before I could make an intelligent decision since I always just vote for a political group and not people. I did get real rude with her since she had no idea what I did and i even used a few swear words that i never use because this happens everytime theres an election and i was tired of just taking her abuse. All she knew is I didn't agree with her choice for president. That was last election this time I haven't seen her since early this summer when she was walking her dog and dropped by to say hi. My old dog was not happy with her hyper terrier mix. Our old cat swatted at it numerous times and the younger one hid. I heard my animals aren't very friendly. Yes they are they just aren't use to hyper ill behaved pets. I haven't seen her since. Talked a few times on the phone and she just so busy she couldn't find time to visit me in the hospital or skilled nursing rehab place.
I get out and she says oh we need to have tea sometime. That was 2 weeks ago and I think they were leaving for the NE to visit grandbabies in another week.

Over the years I have learnt a few do + don't while taking anticonvulsants, one thing I never forget is not to drink fizzy drinks while taking phenytoin cause it triggered seizures, I can't take HRT or penicillin, we all have different things that effect us,
Take care 🙏

Think in an accurate way to ask the question, if not sure look and check how you could on Google.?

This is a problem that exists more these days as people are so literal, & often only deal in absolutes. People also don't ask for clarification like we used to.
I try my best to think it through,
I know at times people didn't fully understand what I was trying to convey. So they got upset even after thinking it through.

Practice the question a few times in your head and even write it down. I have had to do that several times myself these last few days.